ONE!

Today is our daughter's first birthday!


She woke up bright and early this morning. Not the best gift for her momma and sick daddy, but I sense she wanted to make the most of her 1st birthday. PLUS, her grandma flew into town last night and she needed to meet her. She peed through her first cute birthday outfit of the day ["Grandma's Love Bug" onesie and hot pink Hurley pants], maybe because she wanted a wardrobe change ["Best Gift Ever" onesie and ruffled-booty pants].

Right now my little drama queen, nothin' but joy, splish splashin', gibber gabbin', hand-holding walking daughter is asleep in her room. I cannot describe how much JOY she's brought to our life. She is living up to her name: a new life of flowers...spring. We love her so much.

To make this day even more supernatural, on the day Addise was born I wrote THIS POST on our blog. How fitting, how timely. Only God. Even the picture speaks to what I was feeling, aching for, groaning inwardly about.

Shake-my-head, smile-so-big, jump-for-joy, my babies are home! And today we celebrate Addise's first birthday!

[Birthday pictures to come on another post!]

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April L. Diaz

April has been a visionary activist her entire life. She has made it her mission to lead high performing teams and develop leaders in the margins of society while caring for our bodies, mind, and spirit. Secretly, she’s a mix of a total girly girl and a tomboy, and is still crazy about her high school sweetheart, Brian. Together, they co-parent 3 fabulous kiddos and live in Orange County, CA.

Who is Judah Abebayehu Diaz?

When he's feeling a bit precocious, he wrinkles his nose, borderline grunts, and slowly back ups with his little feet. He has a dozen predominant expressions, but they mostly involved a wrinkled up nose and showing his chicklet front teeth. He giggles from the depth of his bloated belly.
He's an explorer and definitely finds whatever is not child-proofed in our house. When Brian or I leaves the front door, he's quick to poke his head behind the curtains and blinds to see us walk down our stairs and toward the garage.

He's in the 1% in weight and 0.33% in height, but generally really healthy. He's wearing 18-24 month clothes. He's learned to say "momma" - which he was calling both Brian and I for over a week, "daddy" - which he's still learning is Brian, and "bye-bye" - which he learned from his V-tech toolbox thanks to Auntie Melissa and Uncle Brian. We think he's really smart because of how much he observes the world around him with his massive brown eyes. We can tell he's really beginning to understand English too. His frustration communicating is ever-so-slightly less and less every day.

He loves chomping massive bites of banana. Milk is not his friend. He's a trooper of an eater, and has done really well learning new foods and experimenting with non-Ethiopian food. Today, he pooped on the toilet for the first time. It was the highlight of my day. One less diaper to change and we're on the way to potty training!

He's definitely grieving. We're handling 4-8 tantrums of varying intensity every day. Nap time and bed time can be tearful and scary for him. We're learning how to love him through those and help him grieve. He's learning how to be loved through those tantrums.

He's a cuddler and lover. He's just started kissing me, daddy, and his little sister on the lips. Melt my heart! After a tantrum he wants to be held like a baby [very common for adoptive toddlers]. When he wakes up in the morning around 5:00-5:30 [!!!!] he comes into bed with Brian and me. He likes to sleep perpendicular in bed and always has at least 1 appendage on Brian and me. He prefers that one of our appendages is touching him, too.

He loves, loves, loves bath-time, especially splashing momma and daddy. He's not afraid of water in his eyes, in fact it's almost a game. He loves his sister most of the time and tolerates her the other times. He particularly is annoyed with her when she tries to climb all over him and incapacitates him from moving at will.

He's totally a boy. He's into kicking anything on the ground, sister included, throwing balls and blocks, figuring out how things work, and he's already into the Chicago Bears and Fighting Illini.

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April L. Diaz

April has been a visionary activist her entire life. She has made it her mission to lead high performing teams and develop leaders in the margins of society while caring for our bodies, mind, and spirit. Secretly, she’s a mix of a total girly girl and a tomboy, and is still crazy about her high school sweetheart, Brian. Together, they co-parent 3 fabulous kiddos and live in Orange County, CA.

Who is Addise Aster Tarike Diaz?

Addise is FULLY girl. She can go from all-out giggles to dramatic lower lip pouting in alarming speed. She is a little girl of a hundred faces - all of them irresistible. Yesterday she discovered mirrors and has since been found staring at herself in the mirror - giggling, making faces, wondering who that beauty is staring back at her. Squeals are quite common and my eardrums hurt.

Addise is in the 58% of weight and 75% of height. She has 3 big rolls on each thigh that beg to be tickled. Her big brown belly loves to be filled with milk. It's like the Pavlov's dogs experiment: she sees a bottle and she starts convulsing with giggles and whines.

Her daddy is the one who can best put her to sleep. She is the ultimate cuddler. She burrows her head into your chest and snuggles away. She's a fan of her security blanket and the 6 dozen other stuffed animals her admirers have given her. She does this remarkably cute thing with her mouth where she mimicks nursing, yet she doesn't dig a pacifer. She LOVES to give kisses to her momma - slobbering all over her face. Again, she giggles and coos the whole time. Yesterday she found the courage to kiss her daddy and has since done it repeatedly.

She's crawling everywhere, pulling herself up on whatever is her height, and is walking while holding my fingers. My guess is that she'll be walking by her first birthday on February 9th. She's cut 2 teeth in the past 2 weeks, all without any crying or fever. She's a trooper! She has however been slobbering and snotting EVERYWHERE! And whenever we try to wipe her snot away from her gorgeous lips, she whips her head back and forth and cried like we're amputating a limb. Drama.

Addise is eating like a champ. Thigh rolls and weight prove it. She's currently adoring veggie straws, bananas, chicken, rice, and TJs yogurt squishers. She's also a pretty messy eater.

We call her "Toots McGoots" because the amount of gas in her belly warrants a nickname. We laugh a lot at how such a pretty little girl can fart so frequently and smelly! She's also a good pooper. [When she reads this someday, she'll be fully mortified.] She doesn't like getting her diaper changed because it cuts into her play time or being held. Plus, who really likes their butts wiped?!?

Emotionally, she's become quite demanding of mommy time. She's less and less cautious of her daddy, but her mommy is really the one who's attention she longs for. If I walk out of the room without acknowledging my absence, fear sets in and tears immediately fall.

Overall, she is joy personified. She makes us smile and laugh and easily remember "why" we endured a 22 month long adoption process.

Enjoy a few seconds of my daughter laughing. The visual isn't great, but the sound is music to my ears...

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April L. Diaz

April has been a visionary activist her entire life. She has made it her mission to lead high performing teams and develop leaders in the margins of society while caring for our bodies, mind, and spirit. Secretly, she’s a mix of a total girly girl and a tomboy, and is still crazy about her high school sweetheart, Brian. Together, they co-parent 3 fabulous kiddos and live in Orange County, CA.